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Question for Scott and Derek: Abundance argues that we’ve forgotten how to build. Has the Anti-Social Century happened because we’ve also forgotten how to build communities? Technology may amplify loneliness, but are we overlooking the possibility that belonging can be intentionally designed? If so, what are the design principles?

If we can learn to engineer abundance, can we also figure out how to design for belonging—without manufacturing it?

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Scott, you've often said one of the three most important masculine skills is making a woman feel safe. So is part of the loneliness epidemic that men no longer have any easy way to approach a woman, say in a bar, that reads as safe rather than intrusive or even threatening? Even asking for a phone number these days feels pushy. What do you think women want from that first moment that men aren't giving them?

Thanks for the podcast.

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